Why do we have such huge issues believing in our own abilities?
It’s hard, right? I mean, other people seem to do it every day without ruffling a single feather. We are able to believe in others, and they live up to our expectations every day.
But when we think of our own personal self, everything comes up negative.
Beating ourselves up for every little mistake and misstep. The “you couldn’t do it before, so it won’t work now” on repeat in our heads.
All of the bad self-talk reinforcing “what is”, and “what is” is not helping us.
The mental “sea of bad” leads to the same in our day to day reality. We only see bad things, bad things only happen to me, I can never shake off the oily bad feelings, and on and on.
That’s why to create real permanent change, you absolutely have to change your internal self-talk.
This follows with the self-fulfilling prophecy. When you believe you can, you do! That little train that thought he could get to the top of the hill (despite negative feedback from others), made it all the way to the top.
If you want to know HOW to make permanent changes to your internal self-talk, book your breakthrough call right now. I promise to help you get clarity on exactly where you are, and where you can be. Click on the link below, and let’s get you out of “can’t-land” and up to the top of that hill.
Its me Tina
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