Why Should I Change?

Why Should I Change?

Do you know what is holding you back?

Is it excuses?

Is it a fear of change?

Is it a lack of money or resources?

Do you know what your short and long term goals are?

Or are you just trying to get through today, or this week, or this month?

Let me ask this again, what are your excuses?

Whatever your situation, if you are not pleased with the current results, it is time for a change.

But first, you must make that decision that it is the time for change.

Then, you can get the results you desire,

“If the facts don’t fit the theory, change the facts.”

-Albert Einstein

I love that quote!

Change is that scary word that most people shy away from.

I don’t want to change.

Why should I change?

Why doesn’t everyone else change to accommodate me?

If I change, then I will be out of my comfort zone.

Why change something that isn’t broken?


Asking someone to change is like expecting the sun to not rise.

Isn’t it a pointless request?

Change comes from within.

Change is something we do with ourselves.

Only we can control us, no one else.

So why ask, expect, anticipate, anything from someone else?

Let’s focus on how to change us.

First, why would anyone want to change themselves?

Is it because they don’t like the outcome?

Have you ever had a conversation with someone and you really want to change their mind about something?

You try so hard to convince them that your point of view is right and theirs is wrong!

Can’t they see that?

I mean do they realize just how foolish their ideas are?


Cause and Effect.

Facts and Theory.

Yin and Yang.

If you don’t like the end result, then you need to change the actions.

If the facts don’t fit the theory, in other words, the end result of the facts is not the theory, the the facts must change.

Your actions (cause) create an end result (effect).  

If you don’t like the effect, change the cause.

If you want a particular effect but aren’t getting it, then change the cause.

It is really simple but we complicate it because we think it is everyone else that needs to change and not us.


Take a breath.

Read that again.

It is really simple.

We want a different end result.

We need to make a change.

If you want to convince someone you are right and they were looking at you like you have three eyes…stop.

Look within.

Why do you want to convince anyone of anything?

If someone cannot see your point of view for whatever reason, if someone is doing something that you do not like, if someone or something is not what you expected…then look within.

Look at what you are doing, thinking, saying…take the blame off others and look at your actions.

Then, you can make the necessary changes and adjustments to achieve the end result you so desire.

Albert Einstein has said many memorable things that we can apply to our daily lives.

Just one of the many quotes of his is:

“If the facts don’t fit the theory, change the facts.”

-Albert Einstein

Are you willing to make a change or changes?

Are you ready to change the facts in order to fulfill your goals?

Schedule your free call with me today and let’s start making the moves you have been wanting to make:   https://www.tinammeitl.com/apply/

Unapologetically Yours,

It’s Me, Tina


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